Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Teenage Life

Well.. I haven't blogged in a while. So far the school year has gone good. Nothing real exciting happens in a small town like this one. Although I can say there us a fair amount of drama.. I try my best to stay out of it and so far I have been successful. Others have not been so lucky. Boy drama, girl drama(which involves boys usually), and rumor drama. There's more I guess but it all usually ties back together somehow. Drama is not fun. It usually just causes friends to hate each other and egos are ruined by multiple rumors put in place by people who don't like you. I've had this happen and I can say they aren't true. My friends have had worse said about them throughout this year and last. Even over the summer. I mean come on, give is a break at least wait to school to talk shot about people. Not that it's right either way.. I say let people be people. If you don't like them then just ignore them. It won't do much good starting stuff. To the people who are the victims of this verbal abuse, don't listen to them. There will ALWAYS be people out there who care about you. If your friends can't stand up for you, they aren't true friends. Find the friends who will be by your side no matter what. For the singles out there; don't rush to find the right person. I've read this poem that explains it perfectly. It goes something like this: "Love is like a butterfly, the more you chase it the more likely it will fly away. If you stay and wait patiently it will come and fly to your shoulder." Nobody is perfect, so don't try to be. Be yourself and don't let anyone change you. Be your own person. Don't try to blend in. Stand out from the crowd. Show the world you aren't afraid of them knowing who you really are. If you blend in nobody will see how truely special you are. Take chances, don't stay on the safe side. Have fun with your life. Enjoy the time you have here on earth. Because someday you will look back on these years and ask yourself why you never did those things. Now don't go off and get arrested. Lol, no don't do that. Anyone can have fun without doing "illegal" things. Which brings me to my next point. Why waste your life stuck in the same rut away from everyone because you made the wrong decision? Sometimes we do have to say no. Don't do drugs just so you fit in. If they only accept you for doing that, they aren't right for your life. Don't drown yourself in the negative "I can't." Look up and think of all the possibilities. Think of everything you've wanted to do or accomplish and GO FOR IT. Sometimes you will fall. That is a factor life. It's not always about where's your going though, and it's more about the journey than the destination. It's like school- the goal is to graduate- but think of all the things you have learned on the way! Think of all the people you have met, loved, and maybe lost. Those things make reaching the end great. Once you graduate you will miss the times you have spent, but you will be grateful for them. The journey will show you the right path to take. So don't always look straight ahead, take some and enjoy your time because you can't rush everything. Not everythingwill turn out the way you want it, but that doesn't mean stop. It may have closed one door, but then another will open to lead you in the right direction.


I hope whoever reads this gets some inspiration from it. Just typing it has got a smile on my face and hope in my heart for the future. :)